Unfortunately so many young people find themselves immersed in relationships with piers of the opposite sex; relationships that are not really suitable for their need or even want?  It's often questionable, how someone who normally would bring such displeasure, suddenly became attractive? 
                  
                  
                  Logic and rational thinking is more often absent, and is replacing by emotions.
                  This age old struggle continues in decision making among persons of all ages; even when there exist evidence; it's not in their best interest. 
                  
                  NEED FOR FULFILLMENT
                  
                  
                    Each of us was created with a need to feel special. However we developed it, everyone wants to be seen as important.  We want to be cherished, and cared for, feel attractive and live in the confidence; that we matter and that someone thinks more of us than they do of anyone else. 
                  
                  
                    We were created in God's image, He designed us with the longing and desires for attractions to others for love. It's full-filling and excited for someone to want us. The challenges though, arise when we our choices are displaced.
                  
                  
                    Growing our self-image, self-worth, in relationship with Jesus Christ is not the usual route for young minds. We are rational being; as such we mistakenly seek someone to make us feel important. Often time young people are distracted by doubt based on religious persuasion. They therefore end up short- sighted of what their relationship with God is supposed to look like. Consequently, instead of turning back to Him, they open themselves up to those relationships that are seemingly more romantic.
                  
                  
                    God wants our desires for love not to go unfulfilled. He is fully aware of the longings within our hearts.
                  
                  
                    A Divine relationship with Him provides us rescues, from those who would take from us, as He offers us His hand. He wants to be the lover of our soul. He wants to be intimately close to us, because He cares for us.